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Oliver Buchannon
Trina Parkin

I empower labor & delivery nurses with expert resources to support pregnancy loss with confidence

Interview

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“We Sew Love”: Rest in His Arms & Angel Gowns for Your Unit

Jun 11, 2026

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6 min read

“We Sew Love”: Rest in His Arms & Angel Gowns for Your Unit

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Laws around bereavement care

The Laws No One Told You About: Legal Realities of Bereavement Care

Jun 4, 2026

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8 min read

The Laws No One Told You About: Legal Realities of Bereavement Care

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Bereavement Room

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What Nurses Carry: New Research on Supporting Families After Stillbirth and Infant Loss

May 28, 2026

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4 min read

What Nurses Carry: New Research on Supporting Families After Stillbirth and Infant Loss

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Published Papers

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It Shouldn't Depend on Which Nurse You Get, Building Reliable Bereavement Care on Your Unit

May 22, 2026

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8 min read

It Shouldn't Depend on Which Nurse You Get, Building Reliable Bereavement Care on Your Unit

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Autopsy

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How to Explain Autopsy and "What Happens to My Baby's Body" in Plain Language

May 14, 2026

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8 min read

How to Explain Autopsy and "What Happens to My Baby's Body" in Plain Language

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin
State of Bereavement Care survey

May 7, 2026

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1 min read

State of Bereavement Care survey

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Mental Health

From Discharge to Healing: A Nurse's Guide to Mental Health Resources After Loss

Apr 23, 2026

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5 min read

From Discharge to Healing: A Nurse's Guide to Mental Health Resources After Loss

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Sympathy Card

15 Meaningful Messages to Write in a Card After a Miscarriage or Infant Loss

Apr 16, 2026

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5 min read

15 Meaningful Messages to Write in a Card After a Miscarriage or Infant Loss

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Cultures and Ethnicities

Supporting Muslim Families After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, or Infant Death

Apr 9, 2026

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8 min read

Supporting Muslim Families After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, or Infant Death

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin
When One Twin Lives and One Dies—What Parents Want Nurses to Understand

Apr 3, 2026

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11 min read

When One Twin Lives and One Dies—What Parents Want Nurses to Understand

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin
5 lessons L&D nurses can learn from the "Companioning Philosophy"

Mar 26, 2026

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10 min read

5 lessons L&D nurses can learn from the "Companioning Philosophy"

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Bereavement Event

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Reflective Listening — The Skill That Changes Everything in Bereavement Care

Mar 19, 2026

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9 min read

Reflective Listening — The Skill That Changes Everything in Bereavement Care

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin
Nurses coping with fetal demise, days, weeks, and months later

Mar 12, 2026

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11 min read

Nurses coping with fetal demise, days, weeks, and months later

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Published Papers

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What’s Actually Normal After a Baby Dies? A Deep Dive into Cacciatore & Thieleman’s MCN Study

Mar 5, 2026

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9 min read

What’s Actually Normal After a Baby Dies? A Deep Dive into Cacciatore & Thieleman’s MCN Study

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin
Fetal death transport in the hospital, best practices for nurses

Feb 26, 2026

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12 min read

Fetal death transport in the hospital, best practices for nurses

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Bereavement Room

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What Tools Do Hospitals Use for Fetal / Infant Death? (Survey Data)

Feb 19, 2026

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7 min read

What Tools Do Hospitals Use for Fetal / Infant Death? (Survey Data)

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Hospital systems

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Meaningful Ways to Mark a Door for Fetal Demise

Feb 13, 2026

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9 min read

Meaningful Ways to Mark a Door for Fetal Demise

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin
Deep Dive: A 15-Minute Debrief Script for Nurses After a Difficult IUFD (Step-by-Step)

Feb 5, 2026

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11 min read

Deep Dive: A 15-Minute Debrief Script for Nurses After a Difficult IUFD (Step-by-Step)

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin
Beyond the Birth Mother: How Entire Families Grieve Perinatal Loss - Part 3 of 3: Grandparents

Jan 29, 2026

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14 min read

Beyond the Birth Mother: How Entire Families Grieve Perinatal Loss - Part 3 of 3: Grandparents

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin
Beyond the Birth Mother: How Entire Families Grieve Perinatal Loss - Part 2 of 3: Siblings

Jan 22, 2026

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16 min read

Beyond the Birth Mother: How Entire Families Grieve Perinatal Loss - Part 2 of 3: Siblings

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Follow up care

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Beyond the Birth Mother: How Entire Families Grieve Perinatal Loss - Part 1 of 3: Fathers

Jan 15, 2026

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13 min read

Beyond the Birth Mother: How Entire Families Grieve Perinatal Loss - Part 1 of 3: Fathers

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Reoccurring miscarriage/death

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Recurring Miscarriage or Infant Death

Jan 8, 2026

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12 min read

Recurring Miscarriage or Infant Death

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Bereavement care history

The Evolution of Caring: what bereavement care looked like in every decade

Jan 1, 2026

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13 min read

The Evolution of Caring: what bereavement care looked like in every decade

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Follow up care

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Top 20 Best Ideas Shared by Nurses at the Bereavement Summit

Dec 18, 2025

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12 min read

Top 20 Best Ideas Shared by Nurses at the Bereavement Summit

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin

Coping Rituals

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Best Practices for Perinatal Bereavement Care Across Different Cultures and Ethnicities

Dec 11, 2025

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12 min read

Best Practices for Perinatal Bereavement Care Across Different Cultures and Ethnicities

Every week, we deliver evidence-based strategies for modern perinatal bereavement care. Written by Jay CRNA, MS, specializing in obstetrical anesthesia, and Trina, a bereavement expert, both who have experienced loss.

Trina Parkin
Trina Parkin
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